Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

[bigabroad]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

Irie Dawta

If you are asking me...
Let me see if I can help...many of the statistics that you see are just numbers in 50% of the cases, and if they are true..they are culture bound...or based on European and American subject and data...

Anyway let us suppose the that it is true..(the underwire issue). I would maintain that is only if there was lead in the wire in the bra AND it was in constant contact with your skin...
Then when you sleep and your body produces moisture...the resulting substance could leech in your skin...and may cause some kind of cancer...but you never can tell who is going to have cancer from what...

We should remeber that cancer is not an illness in itself, it is the state of an illness...
Some are even curable/reversible now...

In Jamaica once I saw a boy who died from cancer after being hit by a cricket ball on his foot.

In Thailand I saw a man who had a steel pole straight through his head( it fell off the back of a truck)...he is till alive as if nothing happened to him...I know him personally...

Now that underwire bra story could easily have been a case of one advertiser against another advertiser and his research was done explicitly to get buyers to switch brands..,
It is a common US (it can catch on anywhere)thing...where specific data is used for advertsing...bit it could still be true..

Finally...just choose another bra...
I have learnt... that it is not a tight bra that is worn...by most of the women...

And for the night bra(yup the have softer bras for night [img]/forums/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] suh me hear again),it is not tight, it is to keep the breasts from flowing to the sides...and like I said they sleep on their backs...both as cultural thing and to keep the breasts from sagging...

Talking about discomfort...I had an aunt in Jamaica who was a hairdresser...and I used to see some hairstyles...
When I asked how the women slept...they said sitting up...now that is torture..


SueSumba
Ahhhhh [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] kinda....but I think I opened a Pandora's box....but I expect angry responses because it runs contrary to what many women think is a rational freedom position, though they have never given it any conscious thought...

Many women who think they are free when they bare themselves, will admit to you if they are honest, that they have not really considered it...

In truth their position is just a reflex action...prompted by a media image of beauty, and the myth of freedom.

Many women are not even free to change their positions in this, because of the attendant social pressure brought to bear on them if they choose to be really free(of the stereotypical free women, who is so free she is public property despite herself) and stop bearing themselves.

Another thing...this thing works...do I have to show before and after photos...

Peace

[KleenBaggy]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

Originally posted by SueSumba:
[qb] dude you're really passionate about di subject don't?

a wanda weh him ooman breastesses look like? [/qb]

Yu shore sey dis in nat a hooman? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

Mi eyes dem tyad. Too verbose fi mi liking. Or is it too much time pon him/har hans?

[M]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

Originally posted by bigabroad:
[qb] as well as getting more of his looks directed at his own breasts...[/qb]

Now that is a man I DON'T want to meet!

[M]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

Originally posted by KleenB:
[qb]Yu shore sey dis in nat a hooman? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

Mi eyes dem tyad. Too verbose fi mi liking. Or is it too much time pon him/har hans? [/qb]

I know I am never going to complain again about guys not talking enough [img]/forums/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] .

[Classy]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

Originally posted by Irie Dawta:
[qb] wait wait wait - I have a question.

What about that whole cancer scare a few years back concerning underwire bras and the fact that if you wear an underwire bra all day - when you sleep you need to give the "girls" a rest and take off your bra?

I'm seriously curious............. [/qb]

I was gonna ask the same thing. And underwires are not always comfortable. Me sleeping in an underwire bra...no!

[Boopie]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

In the first place,there is no where in my post that said that you liked Asian women,I said why do you feel the need to compare them? Secondly I compared you wearing a BRA and me wearing a JOCKSTRAP at night anything binding feels uncomfortable! When my husband plays soccer he can"t wait to get home and remove his! What about underware should we keep them on so our butts or stomaches won"t get big!LUDICROUS!If you have a discrepancy with God"s Words then you have to take that up with him!Go back and read your post,you said you don"t even like ASIAN women and the other breath you "CONSULTED with ASIAN/EASTERN women who were your friends!If and (I"m not saying there is anything wrong in having all sorts of friends)you have these friends that you ("CONSULTED WITH") how can you have a friend and then say you don"teven like them! Another thing how can you make this Statement(ONE of the things I found Astonishing in the East (Women Continue to have SMALL PREFERABLE SIZED BREAST)THEN in the next breath you say you like big firm breasts? PREFERABLE SIZED BY WHOM? This is a big JOKE RIGHT!

[JamBrit]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

OMG ~ If ah lawff inside yah tiddeh, yuh si!! Wat ah helluva canvashayan bout bress!! I neva!! *LOL*

[Suesumba]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

looks like wi bukkup pan di AimeeLongname of breastesses [img]/forums/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[Boopie]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

A Doctor doesn"t have to be sick to cure illnesses,But he does have to do a heck of a lot of "STUDYING", before he gets his practice!NONE OF WHICH YOU HAVE DONE! OBVIOUSLY! NOW GO SQUEEZE INTO YOUR WIFE"S BRA,THEN COME AND CHAT!

[rebelgirl]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

Well I break all the rules there, although to be honest I lost interest somewhere in part 2.

But exhibit "A" me, cup size "A", raised "A" hippie. Have worn "A" bra maybe 1 year total in my entire life (I do wear spandex tops instead sometimes) I'm getting older now, but my breasts are still as firm and perky as they were when I was 13. By your theory (and after having a kid that nearly sucked the life out of me literally) I should have saggy muscle less breasts that will slowly work their way to my knee's but it's not happening. And I find bra horribly uncomfortable for the most part (having lived most of my life free and in the wild) And would never even consider wearing one to sleep

Boopie's right this is more an issue of genetics than wearing your bra to bed. My mothers side of the family the big breasty ones have saggy breasts when they are old. My fathers side (the one my breasts came from) have small firm breast when they get old. I have a friend who got the best of both as her grandmother although nearly in the grave has the large breasts of a 20 year old.

But most important of all, Who cares!!! I certainly don't. if finding a partner or maintaining one when I get old depends solely on my breasts than he can take a hike. I'm interested in the idea of a man with me who loves me for all my quirks not my parts, especially not my breasts (having never really had breasts the have never been a focal point of my ego). and I'm not going to sleep in no bra or wear one all the time just to insure I still firm and perky for a body part fetish some man has. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

Originally posted by bigabroad:
[qb]2.4. Aware men are encouraged to massage women’s breasts not how they think, but in a way which both stimulates the woman and strengthen’s the muscles that keep the breast firm.[/qb]

that's a lie, good muscle toning through weight training will strengthen the underlying muscles and give the breasts the appearance of firmness and upstandidness.

[QK13]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

LAWD A MASSY!!!
A Witchy breddah dis???

Well, mek mi tell yuh, mi ha big bresstisses fi lang time noh... Mi used tuh wear mi brassiere tuh sleep...
But when di titties big, no mount a lycra spandex gwine hole dem up, seen?
An juss fi yuh infarmayshan...
Mi nevah hear a man yet wha complain di titties nuh perky... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

Is this Rev James?

[Irie Dawta]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

I am so [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] !!

(wondering if I should have all my bra's scanned for lead now) [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

(...don't want saggy boobs, can't go braless, but don't feel comfortable wearing a bra to bed...) [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

HELP!!!! WHAT'S A WOMAN TO DO???!!!

[Suesumba]

Re: Oh Bra…No Bra…A Macho Request or Real Gender Issue !!!!

Originally posted by Irie Dawta:
[qb] I am so [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] !!
(...don't want saggy boobs, can't go braless, but don't feel comfortable wearing a bra to bed...) [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

HELP!!!! WHAT'S A WOMAN TO DO???!!! [/qb]

mek yu man hole dem up fi yu